yesterday service talks about divorce.
pastor told us many issues about love etc.
he said something like when the parents quarrel or fight,
the ones who suffer most are the children.
i do agree.
=(
and to love your children or to give them happiness,
the best way is to love your husband/wife =)
haha he said few things that are quite interesting.
"When you are in a relationship, open your eyes BIG.
When you are married, close both of your eyes."
haha this is true,
because we have to open our eyes big to see our gf/bf,
and when we get married,
we have to close both eyes.
we cannot simply just wake up one day and saw the person beside us looks like something weird,
then you say you wanna divorce.
impossible right? haha.
"Love is not blind. Love is perfectly okay. Its the lovers that are blind."
LOL this is absolutely true!
many people always says love is blind.
but love is normal,
whereas the problem lies on the person who love i guess o.O

today after school was studying my ss again.
after studying a while,
i decided to go out to study table there slack with joel le.
qionghui talked about 2 years ago,
when she sent christmas cards to us.
i suddenly remembered about it,
so when i came home,
i took out of the cards in my cupboard and read them again.
altogether there are 4 christmas cards,
from qionghui, adeline, yongzhen and yingshi.
thanks girls =)
back then,
seems like many people were worried that i would "turn bad" at the age of 15.
this whole stupid thing came about when i was young,
my parents brought me to temple and those deity said i would "turn bad" at 15,
so asked my parents to be careful of me.
instead of "turning bad" at 15,
i felt that 15 years old was a breakthrough for me.
i came to know God through cell.
and thanks to sherman,
if back then he didn't invite the aq boys to cell,
i probably wouldn't have attended church liao.
but anyway,
thanks to the people who worried for me =)

kept together with the 4 cards was a letter from qionghui.
she wrote that to me last year for my birthday,
and inside wrote a lot of things.
at the cover she already wrote,
"you've changed... to an Aloysius that I don't know!!!
I hope when you are reading this, you are the OLD Aloysius!!! Not tha Aloy now!"
haha omg!
am I really an Aloysius that was totally different back then around Feb 2006???
ahhhh,
last time i used to think about the "turn bad" thingy,
think till i totally changed my own attitude towards everything.
so probably that's how the new Aloysius emerged bah,
but Thank God that He changes all my thoughts.
God is good,
it's a good thing to give thanks to the Lord, Amen?

in that letter,
she wrote how she came to know this wonderful guy 3 years ago.
LOL.
and also mention my face very black!
does my one smile really affects people around me?
maybe a few only lah haha.
so she said "once again, we want to see your smile =)"
haha now saw le,
happy le mah? ^ ^
she said i have a great sense in choosing for people around me,
hmmm....
another gift?
haha.
*快乐和爱情要自己去找，没有人能帮你找到的！！
haha yeah, thanks for that advice.
but i still didn't do anything either =)

i also found a longest letter so far that someone wrote to me.
it's from none other than my BELOVED mother,
chung ming gui!
did she wrote out a plan about what to write,
then write out a 1st draft,
followed by a final draft??
or whatever that came to her mind,
she just write?
this letter came together with the BELATED birthday present.
the letter got like one whole page of thanks!
and also quite a few "no matter what happens....."
"No matter what happens, just remember 3 things:
U are CUTE, I am CUTE, they are all UGLY!"
haha i still remember that!

yupp...
prelims are just one week away,
study and revision will come to mind -.-
planned to work after o level,
but in just December,
i would have to take 10 days leave if i work!
omg!
for that i sure kena fired de.
not even work for one month then wanna take 10 leaves liao.
so maybe next year January then i will work bah =)

GoForIt!!